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WHEN THINGS GO WRONG : PREGNANCY
TERMINATION IN SURROGACY
by Shelley M. Tarnoff, JD, LMFT
LawSMT@aol.com
After years of infertility treatments and
praying for a positive pregnancy test, it is never easy to hear
that you will not be able to carry a child on your own. It can
take years to come to grips with the fact that you will miss the
experience of pregnancy and that you will have to rely on the
services of a surrogate to have the family you always wanted.
After saving enough money, researching medical clinics and
agencies, and meeting the woman who has offered to help you, it
is time to bring in the lawyers to work out the details of a
surrogacy agreement. Caught up in the magic of creating a life
together, therapeutic abortion and selective reduction are not
pleasant subjects to talk about. However, setting forth the
terms and conditions of pregnancy termination is one of the most
crucial aspects of contract negotiations and can help to avoid
serious misunderstandings later on.
The 1973 U.S. Supreme Court case Roe v. Wade upheld a woman’s
right to abortion (under certain circumstances) based upon her
constitutional right of privacy. Accordingly, it is the
surrogate who makes the ultimate decision regarding therapeutic
abortion and selective reduction, regardless of the terms of the
surrogacy agreement. If an amniocentesis reveals a serious fetal
abnormality, there is nothing the intended parents can do to
compel the surrogate to undergo an abortion. Their remedy at law
is limited to a suit for breach of contract, with damages
including, but not limited to, reimbursement of medical and
legal expenses and additional costs associated with raising a
handicapped child. Because of this legal framework, it is
essential that each party undergo a thorough psychological
evaluation and review of personal moral, ethical and religious
considerations regarding abortion to ensure that the viewpoints
of the intended parents and surrogate are compatible.
It is common for the surrogate agreement to provide that the
decision to abort will be left to the discretion of the
attending physician if continuation of the pregnancy presents
imminent harm to the surrogate’s health. Intended Parents may
request that surrogate undergo a therapeutic abortion upon the
diagnosis of a significant physical and/or mental abnormality.
It is important to avoid ambiguous contract language such as
conditioning therapeutic abortion upon “abnormalities that would
significantly impair the child’s quality of life” in favor of
more specific provisions such as “abnormalities diagnosed by
genetic or other testing”. Surrogates may request that a
therapeutic abortion not be performed for the purpose of sex
selection. The parties may agree to a selective reduction
procedure in the event more than two fetuses are developing.
Fortunately, with the emerging trend of transferring no more
than two blastocyst embryos, the incidence of selective
reduction is becoming less frequent.
If the surrogate undergoes a therapeutic abortion or spontaneous
abortion, according to the terms of the agreement, she is
usually paid a pro rata portion of her fee, calculated by
multiplying her total fee by a fraction, the numerator of which
is the number of days of pregnancy and the denominator of which
is the normal term of pregnancy. Additionally, a fee of $500.00
is often paid to the surrogate for undergoing a therapeutic
abortion, selective reduction, amniocentesis or other invasive
procedure to compensate her for associated pain and suffering.
In the event of infant death, the intended parents should agree
to take all actions necessary to have their names listed on the
infant’s death certificate and to assume all cremation and
burial expenses.
Pregnancy loss is an extremely difficult experience for all
parties. In her search to find an explanation for the
miscarriage, a surrogate may feel guilty for “not resting
enough” or “not eating well”. In all likelihood, there is
nothing she could have done to prevent the loss. Distraught over
the huge emotional and financial toll, the intended parents may
lash out and blame the surrogate or the physician. A trained
mental health professional can help guide the parties through
the grief of pregnancy loss and work towards resolution. With
the physician’s approval, the surrogate may be willing to
undergo a repeat cycle after a few month’s of rest.
As the parties proceed with contract negotiations, it is
important to acknowledge the purpose and limitations of a legal
document. The agreement sets forth the rights and
responsibilities of the parties, but what holds the relationship
between the surrogate and intended parents together is the bond
of trust. This trust is formed over time with honest
communication and mutual respect. The intended parents trust the
surrogate to do her best to provide a healthy in utero
environment for their child. The surrogate trusts the intended
parents to love and accept any child born as their own. With a
foundation of integrity and goodwill, the parties can work
together towards their shared goal - producing a healthy child
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